forgive The way you present is wrong
, your current form of forgiveness is ephemeral. Today may forgive, but tomorrow another act again and with it the anger, misunderstanding, trial or any other feeling will come again.
One forgives, but does not forget Forgiveness does not mean forgetting, forgiveness means letting go, not to make what is outside of you affect you. means
let people be , means letting your are, you accept and laugh with yourself. It means to move forward positions, meaning to have courage, be brave. To access the power of forgiveness you must renew every minute, drain and refill, understand, agree.
And how do I get? can not say "I forgive you" and you're done. Forgiveness is a spiritual act, is something that you should feel.
Forgiveness is the most important act of love that a human being can make , indeed, all your acts are acts of love. From calling to a person and ask as it is, do work, cleaning your house, to making food. A person sees the world through the love of his heart, this is one of the main reasons why many people can not access the forgiveness, not all see the world through the eyes of the heart. Our experience full of hatred, melancholy, sadness and injustice invented it deems unable to see reality.
Through the pursuit of love, which is nothing but illusion, gratitude, acceptance, solidarity, understanding and unity with the environment, you access the truth.
And what is this truth? That to live in peace and happy you must perform the act of forgiveness at every moment. Through forgiveness
get to leave the past in place not judge people by their actions, because each one is free to decide what you want. Are your labels, your judgments, your culture, what you have learned what it judges the deeds of people who are near, making your heart is cloudy.
There are things that can not be forgiven Forget forgiveness as we know today, because it is wrong. To feel the positive energy the power of forgiveness, know that all you
to forgive is yourself . For years you've been autosufrimiento, bringing negativity, judging every thing being alive, being only happy when experiences are exactly as you want. The maturity is within your reach, it will set you free. Love is the inexhaustible energy that moves everything and forgiveness will open the door to it. When you succeed in doing so, feel a sense of gratitude and well'd ever imagined.
When you get to forgive, the mind is silent, like magic, you do not hear the rustling, and not come images of past situations, broken relationships, unsatisfactory work, from when you pointed the finger. When you feel the forgiveness in you something surprising happens:
accept death as part of life. Do not throw in face someone out, agree that it is part of what it means to be alive and feel very full. More than I ever would have ever been, the death you're not afraid.
agree to everything that comes and embrace what happened hard because you have learned and grown from this, let and make things happen. Deposit your steps on the target, knowing that what makes you, but this time without resistance. Still fighting, still keep your self-esteem high, you keep saying no, you keep saying yes, still protecting your home and your body, your family, your environment. But it is different, has taken a giant step towards happiness, which is more than the translation of the inner state we all want to achieve and which is called happiness.
PS In the current form of forgiveness have to forget the damage we have done, but the reality is very different: we are the ones we hurt. We have learned to try and depend on the environment, to blame others for what happens to us. It's time change, it's time to take responsibility for our welfare. It's time to ask forgiveness and start anew.